To be a different kind of mother

I've wrapped you my dear son with so much love, but with an added touch of all my fears and all of my worries.

Yes - that’s how you grew up.

I was so sure it's the right way to be a good, loving and protective mother.

You grew beautifully!

But - with mother's fears!

At some point it affected you and your life.

You became worried and anxious, and avoided many of the things that your friends accomplished.

And at some point it almost got you completely isolated.

Naively I thought those are ordinary fears that will pass on; I also understood that psychological sessions can go on for years.

And than, I've decided to take full responsibility and do the best I can do for you.

I made an appointment for a session with Tami Yaari, and of course the questions and concerns began, many questions were asked.  I told him:

there is no other way, there is no other alternative, just give it a chance.

I'm so happy we did it!

After a few sessions with Tami, I began to see a new guy…strengthened… a guy that walks in another path of life.

A guy that gets rid of his fears and frights, which were originally mine!!

Every meeting enlightened his eyes and his life,

I was treated by Tami too at that time, in order to let go… and be free.

Today I'm happy to tell: the nightmare is over!

He says: "tami saved me"

It may sound like a cliché, but it's true!!

I learned how to let him live his life peacefully and pleasantly,

And he learned how to be happy for who he is and for the freedom that he got

Freedom from fears

Freedom from worries

Freedom from enxiety

And that taught me how to be a… different kind of mother!

Written by: Nira Katz   / January 2010